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floorcandy: (oops)

Re: Day 23?, ???

[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-02 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
... it's not one-sided.
quercusoptima: (a thousand unsung rhymes)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-02 04:25 am (UTC)(link)
[... a slow nod]

And so, the thing you wanted to ask my advice for was ... ?
floorcandy: (look for everything and see a lizard)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-02 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
Advice on the whole thing? We've been fine with things as they are for a long time, but I'm worried that it might start to give him stress.
quercusoptima: (things overheard)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-02 04:38 am (UTC)(link)
[sighing briefly, rubbing at his temple for a moment]

Do you think there's been escalation recently, then? On his side, if not yours?
floorcandy: (THIS is the ultimate shape for a noodle)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-02 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
He made a move, but it was impulsive and he apologized for it later.
quercusoptima: (faced forward)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-02 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
[tilting his head]

What about you? What did you feel?

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-02 05:11 am (UTC)(link)
I was happy. I had gotten him a big gift, and I was glad he liked it that much.
quercusoptima: (faced forward)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-02 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
What sort of thing did he do--?
floorcandy: (yep，I'm a hairy gingerbread man)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-02 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
Kissed me.
floorcandy: (verily verily)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-02 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't reciprocate, for the record.
quercusoptima: (faced forward)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-04 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
But did you want to?

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-04 06:15 am (UTC)(link)
Yyyyyes.
quercusoptima: (unsure if want)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-05 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
[a small sigh]

Then, that is the problem, isn't it ...
floorcandy: (timeshare?)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-05 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
I am okay with continuing to not kiss him.
quercusoptima: (faced forward)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-05 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
[tilting his head, studying him for a moment]

... What do you want, though, Mikage?
floorcandy: (oops)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-05 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
I can't date two guys at once, Bishop.
quercusoptima: (farsight)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-05 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
I'm aware of that. But it's good to step back and decide where you want to be, and where you wish to go from here.
floorcandy: (look for everything and see a lizard)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-05 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
I just don't want either of them to be unhappy. I haven't thought of anything more past that.
quercusoptima: (things overheard)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-05 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
A relationship depends just as much on what you want, though.
floorcandy: (mysteries are scary)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-05 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm happy with my relationship with Shuri as it is, except for the long-distance thing, and I can't have one with Tempest.
quercusoptima: (faced forward)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-06 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
[sitting back a little, with a sigh]

If you are happy with it, then -- really and truly happy with it -- it might be for the better to tell him so seriously, and to let him have a little distance.
floorcandy: (THIS is the ultimate shape for a noodle)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-06 06:24 am (UTC)(link)
Which him?
quercusoptima: (all the little details)

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[personal profile] quercusoptima 2013-04-06 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
The one you don't intend to pursue a relationship with.
floorcandy: (wintertime in France)

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[personal profile] floorcandy 2013-04-06 06:51 am (UTC)(link)
Tempest already knows I won't have a relationship with him. He's had to correct teammates who thought we were dating before, and he got mad when he thought they were implying I would cheat.

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